Like any animals, human need a partner to pair with and carry on the family line. However, it is not easy to get a girlfriend because the fierce competition in today’s society. There are too many good men out there, and if you are still using traditional ways to chase a girl, you probably lost the chance to win her over before someone else does. Anyway, it is very easy to have a crush on someone but it’s very hard to make her interested on you as well. And I will provide some instructions about how to increase the chance to attract a female on this post.
- Stay positive

No one will like a man who always complain and talk shit about others. Try to discover something good on others and eventually other people will notice your good .
2. Be kind

No girl like to date with a guy treat others bad. Try to show your kindness such as stand treat on a meal or smile and say hi to others initially. But remember, do not do this only to girls, do it to everyone around you. Girls are sensitive and will notice that you only do this to please her and will think you are fake and not real.
3. Be confidence

Everyone like confidence person no matter you are male or female. It’s similar as selling a product to someone. If you are not confidence on your product, how can you convince others to purchase you product. And one thing very important is that do not say sorry all the time. You do not owe the girl anything even you love her a lot. Do not do whatever the girl told you to do, try to be yourself and treat yourself well.
4. Pretend not to care

Do not act like so hungry and thirsty. If you are very progressive and want to invite the girl right after get her wechat or phone number, the girl probably think you are dangerous and label you as sexual predator. At least wait for a week or two, try to flirt with her before making a formal dating.
5. Chat in a funny way

Do not say ‘did you wake up’, ‘did you eat’, ‘drink more water’. It’s boring and sound like a father. Try to be funny, and say something funny that will catch her interests such as ‘Do you know there’s a big news happened today’, ‘I think you are keeping a pet and so do I.’
6. One bird at hands is better than a group of birds in the forest.

Most men has a misconception that casting a net (flirt with different girls at the same time) in different social media can increase the chance to get a girl. In a way somewhat it is, but do not underestimate girl’s sixth sense. And because of today’s super power of internet, mutual friends is a problem if you flirt with different girl at the same time. The girl you are chasing maybe is the friend with another girl that you are flirting with. Do not even dream about becoming the king of sea (A term that a man have relationship with many girls at the same time in China). Stay focus and be real is the only way that a girl will open a window for you.















